How To Remove A Man From A Pedestal

When you’re really interested in a man you’re dating or in a situation in a relationship where a man is pulling away, there is a tendency to build him up while simultaneously pulling yourself down. I remember so many times in my own dating life being so impressed by a man within the first few…

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What To Do When He’s Selfish

I hear from women all the time how selfish men can be, and how the man they’re dating, or their husband or partner, just doesn’t seem to consider them at all in the decisions he makes. Perhaps this is true in your situation. Yet, I also know from experience that when we have labeled a man selfish in…

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Keeping your heart open when you want to shut it down

When we’re feeling angry or hurt, our instinct is to shut down and protect ourselves from that ever happening again. I see this all the time with love and intimacy. This was where I used to go without fail in my own relationship. I remember if my husband was being cold, distant, or angry, I…

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